Judgement? No Party!
And so……the party is over...the challenge is closed and now I can return to my old life of old days before the Coil Blogging Club monthly challenge.
OR…I could even go ahead and blogging TILL THE EEEEEEND OF TIIIIIIIME!!!
Ahahahaha the one who will prevent me from writing something stupid in here is yet to come!
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Today I read Allen's entry and it hit me a lot. It is mostly about relationships and connections and at a point he was talking also about the judgement factor.
Oooooh man….to me this is SO KEY to have healthy relationships with anyone.
With anyone I mean literally any kind of person you pass by. From the business man to the man on the street. I touch on this some days ago in FRIENDSHIPS.
I really believe that one of the most valid skills to pursue in our lifetime is to uplift the people with you find while you live your daily life.
With you in any way I mean...at work, at home, the clerks (love the film I & II), the people you meet in general.
The better way to uplift a person is obvious and it is: to make it smile. Could you ever resist a person that finds a way to make you smile even in the middle of a gray day?
I worked a lot on this aspect of me, sure, to take advantages over the other people!
Ahahahah…not at all…not true I was joking as I am king in jokes…😂😂😂
The truth is that I can’t think at something more satisfying than seeing a person lighting up from its burdens…even if it is for few seconds.
I think I am mastering little by little this Art of bringing out the good within the people. It is something almost magical.
Now, it is many years I study this kind of thing and sometimes I do it without effort and sometimes I really cant get what to do or what to say.
Other times i thought i didn't know what to do or say but in the end i found out i did great.
What I discovered is that we always have a background flow of….I guess it is called intuition but it is something more actually, which gives you good advices. It is just matter of tuning yourself into this mood.
It is not related at all to Judgement because I know I make and say things very stupid from time to time…but it is ok. I have a lot of fun since i am not being bossed by judgment and it is truly the cornerstone of every kind of Art as I was saying with Mancel about this article of today from him and this is why there can't be any real Evolution or progress if we are attached to Judgement.
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Lancia☀️
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