Frienships
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These days, in the Telegram CBC chat, came out a deep discussion about friendships and Seth and Sandra decided to make an article about this topic.
After this, I was clearly asked from all the members of the Club to say mine on the subject…they are stressing me so much: “Come on Lancia! What do you think about friendships….we want to know!!”.
No….ahahah. This is a lie. 🥳😂
No one really asked me anything at all……but you know….the case wants I have this blog here…..I have an opinion…so WHY I SHOULD NOT GIVE MY TWO CENT on the subject? 🥳 😂😂😂😂
FRIENDSHIPS
In my life I always had many people around. Never had any major difficulties to make new friends, but because we humans are dynamic in our way of living things and way to approach life itself, we distribute our attention to different people in different stages of our life. It is comprehensible.
Now….as I understand, there are people who accept this and live their life like “live and let live” like me and other who gets offended if you cannot be around anymore for many reasons (family, job etc..)
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This is pretty normal I guess…even if I still do not have a reliable measure to define what “normal” is.
Maybe everyone is normal in his/her own way and is the judgement which keeps it out from normality….anyway...I always tend to appreciate every person for its quirks because theymake the person special in its unique “flavor”.
My wife always tells me that she is astonished about my way of approaching any kind of person and it is because I like life stories. They really interest me so I think this is perceived in some way by the other person…and because I like to know I am very open about mine too. Luckily I have nothing bad to hide…nowadays this is a luxury eh!!!
As I was saying I gravitated around many people and many groups in my life and in each I establish friendships of many levels of depth: from superficial ones to lifelong friendships. My best friend is called Alessio and we know each other from our birth more or less. Truly a brother from another mother.
One thing I always try to do in any case is to leave the person with a nice memory of our meeting moment.
I have many dear friends, I ear like once a week, others once every few months, others once a year just to say to them “HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!”.
Some of them gets upset from the fact I get in touch with them so sporadically, others shows me their love in any case just like I do with them.
In the end I don't really give a fuck about the time factor. I just want to enjoy my time and fill the people around with Love and Happiness.
This is the way I do.
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Enjoy.
Lancia☀️
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